2021 The Year of Yes...and No

When the Eagles penned 'Life in the Fast lane ' in 1976 I don't think they imagined just how fast that lane would become. 

Life in the fast lane

Surely make you lose your mind

Life in the fast lane

Everything all the time.

The Eagles could not have realized that "everything, all the time" would become a reality with the advent of Amazon. Need tweezers delivered in 24 hours? Amazon Prime will box them up in protective packaging, put them on a gas-fueled truck and have it at your home in time for you to pluck that chin hair before your next social event. Need McDonald's fries STAT? Door Dash will have them at your door before you can spin off the imminent calories on your Peloton. We have become a nation of saying YES to all the things!

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But at what cost does this convenience come? Our planet is suffering from over consumption.

In an article in National Geographic Christopher Flavin, president of Worldwatch Institute states, "Rising consumption has helped meet basic needs and create jobs but as we enter a new century, this unprecedented consumer appetite is undermining the natural systems we all depend on, and making it even harder for the world's poor to meet their basic needs."

"Most of the environmental issues we see today can be linked to consumption," said Gary Gardner, director of research for Worldwatch.

In her 2016 book, 'Year of Yes', Shonda Rhimes, the uber-talented creator and show runner of Grey’s Anatomy, Scandal and How to Get Away with Murder, encouraged people to say Yes in order to confront their fears and become more open to new experiences. Anyone who knows me knows I whole-heartedly agree with that sentiment. Go boogie boarding in the frigid waters of New England on New Year's Day? Yes! Stay in an isolated treehouse in the middle of the Peruvian Amazon? Yes! Rhimes, an introvert, was pushing herself to get outside of her comfort zone. I would encourage everyone to say Yes... to doing things that scare you on a regular basis and to say Yes to experiences over things. Last year our family decided to give experiences instead of gifts. One of our most fun "gifts" was an evening of curling as a family. We've had fewer presents under the tree the past few years but many more happy memories. After Christmas when it came time to take out the garbage, we were pleased with how little we had.

My friend Cybele Sack posted on Facebook about 2021 being the year of saying No. "NO to destroying the environment, NO to harming for profits, NO to discrimination, NO to taking credit for other people's work, NO to being a jerk. Just NO."

In her book, Rhimes also encourages people to "Say Yes to Saying No. Learn to say ‘no’ to things and people that are sucking the life out of you."

I would add, say No to Racism, bullying, mean-spiritedness, No to excess consumerism and to wanting all the things.

Say Yes to going outside your comfort zone, Yes to adventure and Yes to new experiences.

Here's to a more thoughtful 2021 where we consider the wider impact of our decisions.

The earth will thank-you. You will thank-yourself.


Contributed by co-founder Maria Bromley

For more info on the impacts of consumerism on the earth check out:
https://www.nationalgeographic.com/environment/2004/01/consumerism-earth-suffers/#close

TAKE ACTION- black lives matter.

As a white female, it is not appropriate to share an opinion piece on everything that is happening right now. However, I feel my best way to take action is by providing resources to learn, how we can help as well as spreading awareness about issues regarding the Black Lives Matter movement. 

Why I feel it’s so important to provide these tools, is because it is abundantly clear we can no longer stay silent. Silence is inaction. Silence is thinking the Black Lives Movement does not affect you, that it is irrelevant to you. To think, “I have black friends”, so therefore I am not racist is an incredibly flawed and uninformed point of view. It goes so far and beyond this ideology, for we should not be preaching “I am not a racist” and rather, “I am an ANTI-racist!” All lives matter, sure. But it isn’t about that. It is beyond that. Right now this is for the black lives movement. Think about those three words deeply and understand what they truly mean. 

“If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor”, a quote by Desmond Tutu, a South African Anglican cleric and theologian known for his work as an anti-apartheid and human rights activist.

COVID has given us time to reflect on our lives, to think about those who need our support more than ever and what flawed systems of humanity need total upheaval. This includes our fight for sustainability, the support of companies who take care of the planet and their workforce, as well as how this pandemic has disproportionately affected the black communities. But it stems beyond this. It goes deeper. 

We sit and watch one life murdered, and then another, and then another black life lost at the hands of those who are supposed to keep us safe. This is not new (I urge you to read the aforementioned link and look all of the victims’ names. Read their stories.) Our history is entangled with slavery and institutional racism persists to this day. It is flawed. And we must fix it. We cannot let another year, another moment pass. It is time for systemic change for justice and equality for all. “Change will not come if we wait for some other person or some other time. We are the ones we’ve been waiting for. We are the change that we seek.” – President Barack Obama. 

So I urge all my non-POC readers (especially brands I have worked with!) to take it upon yourselves to act beyond a post of condolence, and then we move on. It needs to be deeper than sympathy, deeper than well-wishes. I hope you can take this time to rethink all you have been taught thus far, or things we have blindly ignored. Our action is our reaction, and anything less than that will not create the necessary changes we need to see. The conversations you need to have may be uncomfortable. But no change in life comes from comfort, remember that.

Here are some of the tools and resources from various leaders in the BLM community. Take the time to look into their platforms and hear their stories. You have the resources to act. No more silence.

 IMMEDIATE ACTION:

  •  Justice for Floyd

    • “George Floyd was a peace activist and respected community leader. He was far from his home in Houston when he was murdered in broad daylight by Minneapolis police.” 

  • Justice for Breonna  

    • “Breonna Taylor was an award-winning EMT and model citizen. She loved her family and community. She worked at two hospitals as an essential worker during the pandemic.” 
       

JOIN THE MOVEMENT:

READ, INFORM YOURSELF, AND LEARN ABOUT OUR PAST:

FILMS/T.V. SERIES TO WATCH:

  • 13th (Avery DuVernay)

  • American Son (Kenny Leon)

  • Black Power Mixtape: 1967-1975

  • Clemency (Chinonye Chukwu)

  • Dear White People (Justin Simien)

  • Fruitvale Station (Ryan Coogler)

  • I Am Not Your Negro (James Baldwin)

  • If Beale Street Could Talk (Barry Jenkins)

  • Just Mercy (Destin Daniel Cretton)

  • King In The Wilderness

  • See You Yesterday (Stefon Bristol)

  • Selma (Ava DuVernay)

  • The Black Panthers: Vanguard of the Revolution

  • The Hate U Give (George Tillman Jr.)

  • When They See Us (Ava DuVernay)
     

ARTICLES TO READ:

  • A list compiled by the @SouthAsians4BlackLives group compiled by Sophie Flicker and Alyssa Klein

  • America’s Racial Contract is Killing Us” by Adam Serwer

  • Ella Baker and the Black Freedom Movement

  • “My Life as an Undocumented Immigrant” by Jose Antonio Vargas

  • The 1619 Project

  • “The Intersectionality Wars” by Jane Coaston

  • “Who Gets to Be Afraid in America?” by Dr. Ibram X. Kendi

PODCASTS TO LISTEN TO:

  •  A list compiled by the @SouthAsians4BlackLives group compiled by Sophie Flicker and Alyssa Klein

  • 1619 (NY Times)

  • About Race

  • Code Switch (NPR)

  • Intersectionality Matters! Hosted by Kimberlé Crenshaw

  • Momentum: A Race Forward Podcast

  • Pod for the Cause (from The Leadership Conference on Civil & Human Rights)

  • Pod Save the People (Crooked Media)

  • The Combahee River Collective Statement

  • How to Survive the End of the World 

DONATE IF YOU CAN:

SUPPORT BLACK BUSINESSES:

SOCIAL MEDIA ACCOUNTS TO FOLLOW 

MORE INFORMATION ON WHAT WHITE PEOPLE CAN DO RIGHT NOW: 

Togetherness and Creativeness; Things to Keep Us Going During COVID-19

Gone are the days where we can meet up with friends, have Sunday dinners with loved ones, or simply go to our favorite workout class; our normal routine that I’m sure lots of us took for granted. I know I did. So, how can we stay connected even though we may be physically separated?  

I’ve seen a bunch of things popping up on the internet and social media about ways we can change up our normal routines, but find comfort in these new circumstances we’re all forced to be in. It can feel overwhelming at first, for me especially I tend to shrink at the thought that I should be more productive during this time, simply because I have so much more free time. If I feel pressure that I should be accomplishing that much more, it will oftentimes have the opposite effect on my productivity. My husband however thrives at the prospect of all these new, oftentimes, creative ways in which we can keep busy. He loves when he feels useful and productive, whether someone is telling him to be so or not. I guess a lot of the times I have to come to my creativeness on my own terms.  

While sometimes my coping mechanisms revolve around staring at a screen all day being anything but productive, I have found it encouraging to see new ways in which we can tap into our creative side, whenever we feel the urge to do so. My husband loves lists like this, so if you’re anything like him I think you’ll enjoy the plethora of suggestions. If you’re like me, you can take this list with a grain of salt. if you’re having a good day and feel like you need some more art in your life or simply want to throw on the latest virtual MET concert as you fall asleep at night, check it out. 

This is a time filled with anxiety, sleepless nights, and simply the unknown of how long, and how bad this will get is unsettling. But if we can use this time to learn from each other and grow stronger from this terrible pandemic, to support the arts, support our local businesses who are strugglingthen I think we can grow exceptionally stronger from this whole situation. This affects us all disproportionately, I know I oftentimes feel bad, to feel bad, seeing as I have a lovely home to quarantine in and a supportive partner that lifts me up when I’m feeling my worst, but all our problems are valid and it’s how we try and make the most of this situation and come together even though we’re apart that we’ll get through this. See you on the other side. 

 

INTROVERTS:

  • Free audio books on Audible

  • Or video games I guess… like my husband is into…

THE ARTS:

  • A lot of museums are offering free virtual tours. Musee D’orsay is a favorite of mine, check it out! Skip the line, virtually, for free!

  • Or check out Marquee TV (basically Netflix for the arts)

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 MUSIC MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND:

  • The arts are what helps us get through the tough times, yet it’s artists and musicians that will have some of the hardest times getting through this recession. The MET is offering free streaming of their concerts every night. 

  • Celebrities are joining in by offering free concerts via streaming; Miley Cyrus, John Legend and Willie Nelson have hosted virtual concerts, check out the hashtag #TogetherAtHome to find more virtual concerts to come

  • My father in law, Kim Mitchell hosted a concert on Facebook Live, check it out here!

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 CHEERS! :

  • In lieu of supporting small businesses, a lot of our favorite bars are finding it difficult to stay afloat. If you’re NYC based, try ordering a big batch of premade cocktails from The Garret (and then host a virtual happy hour with friends!)

  •  If you’re outside of NYC, get creative by making your own cocktails. This is a favorite of mine; the Paper Plane.

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 KEEP THE PARTY GOING:

  • In addition to virtual happy hours, join Zoom or Google Hangout to connect with friends, celebrate each other’s birthday parties, or to meet new people. 

  • Club Quarantine is hosting an online queer party every night of the quarantine. 21:00-00:00 ET on zoom app.

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 FEED ME:

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 STAY ACTIVE TO SUPPORT ALL YOUR BINGE EATING:

  • Beyond feeling good, a lot of the workouts I previously did were to stay fit because I had to for work. While I thought I would lessen the amount of movement I did seeing as I’ll be out of work for a while, I realized that it actually helps me alleviate stress and anxiety and is a great tool to get through these times. So, keep moving!! For you, and not because you have to. 

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 SUPPORT SMALL BUSINESSES:

  • If you can shop locally from that mom & pop store that’s still open versus another Amazon order! 

  • If you’re ordering in, leave a box of snacks and water for your local delivery man, they’re still out there working and keeping us afloat, let them know you appreciate them!

  • Order takeout from that Indian or Chinese restaurant you’ve been wanting to try. A lot of these small businesses will not survive, do what you can to support them during these rough times 

HOW TO BE A SUCCESSFUL ENTREPRENEUR:

  • My friend Sinead Bovell, founder of Waye Talks is giving out weekly advice for the young entrepreneur. Check out her site for incredible advice on entrepreneurship and simple solutions on how to stay motivated and productive during this pandemic. 

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 GET SMART:

  • No more excuses!! Seeing as I only completed one year at UofT before moving to NYC full-time to pursue modeling, now is my time to get back into academics!

  • This is a great resource, as is this class by Yale which is now offering their most popular class to date for free! And the topic is without a doubt going to help you get through these depressing times. 

 REWATCH THE TORONTO RAPTORS WIN AGAIN, AND AGAIN, AND AGAIN: 

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 NIHONGO O MANABU (LEARN JAPANESE): 

  • All I can seem to remember is how to order a beer and food (useful), but perhaps I should re-learn a bit more… Check out this site!

BE CALM: 

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 NETFLIX, DRINK, AND CHILL:

  • A new way to watch Netflix together with friends; Netflix Party, check it out!!

TRYING TO STAY SUSTAINABLE? : 

  • It’s okay to feel overwhelmed at the prospect of having to use more plastic when stocking up on goods during this pandemic. Look at sustainability in a new lens. Lauren Singer, founder of Package Free Shop sums it up pretty perfectly in her latest Instagram post.

I’m thankful for all of those putting their lives on risk to support the economy and keep us all safe. The heroes who work in hospitals, doctors offices, delivery men, firefighters, small businesses who are being hit hard more than ever. These are tough times, but we will get stronger from this. We’ll have good days, and terrible days, but we will learn from this and grow together even stronger than before. Thank you again for everyone staying inside, washing their hands, and continuing to follow protocol. Do it for your loved ones, the elderly, your friends, and own family.

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New Normal- Contribution by Co-Founder Maria Bromley

There's something about March.  March 12 more specifically, which happens to be my birthday. Nine years ago, I was planning to kick off my birthday "weekend" celebrations on Friday March 11.  Little did I know that afternoon a massive earthquake and tsunami would strike Japan (where I was living at the time). Needless to say, my birthday celebrations were put on hold and we struggled with our new reality. This year I had planned to visit the SXSW festival for my birthday.  Then the coronavirus hit and the world shut down.  My friends held a subdued birthday dinner for me on March 11.  Then on March 12, we all began to practice social distancing and self-isolation if necessary. All this to say, I am getting pretty good at handling natural disasters on my birthday.

I started writing a blog after the earthquake which helped me to process my emotions during those turbulent days after the nuclear meltdown which followed the earthquake and tsunami. Here is a portion from one post I entitled "aftershock adrenaline".

We've had 25 aftershocks in the last 16 hours. It is hard to concentrate on anything else.  This morning before school my sons were looking on the earthquake website betting each other what size it was.  “I think it was about 5.0!”  “No way, it was about 6!”  It’s great they have something new to argue about.  But dropping them off at school is difficult.  I want to keep everyone together at home.  But I can’t do that forever.  I have to pretend that everything is fine.  My daughter takes a bus to a school one hour away.  It took her 8 hours to get back the night of the 9.0 earthquake.  When I say goodbye in the morning, I think about it.  Again, and again.  Last night we all slept together on the upper floor.  I felt safer being up there.  I brought up a case of water, our shoes and a backpack with supplies.  Flashlight, passports, money etc.  The boys packed a big jar of peanut butter.  Which I actually thought was a good idea. 

The Coronavirus pandemic is a very different situation.  It's global and longer term. But trying to manage the stress and deal with the anxiety is very similar. I am going to include another post I wrote for my blog...as I think it will resonate.

Everyone handles stress in a different way.  Some are fighters, some are flighters. According to website thebodysoul.com, when fight or flight hits, your nerve cells fire and chemicals are released into your bloodstream. You breathe more rapidly. Your blood is redirected from your digestive tract into your muscles and limbs. Your pupils dilate. Your awareness intensifies. Your sight sharpens. Your impulses quicken. Your perception of pain diminishes. Your immune system mobilizes. You become prepared—physically and psychologically—for fight or flight. The fight or flight response to acute stress can save your life.  It prepares you to flee or fight in order to defend yourself from danger. This is the potentially life-saving response to acute stress.   

But what about what we are experiencing now?  Long-term acute stress?  Or chronic stress. How will living under the new normal of long-term aftershocks, threat of radiation and feelings of survivor guilt, affect us physically and psychologically?  Chronic stress is a negative physiological and emotional response when it is intense and unresolved.  This kind of stress leads to wear and tear on the body and mind.  It can compromise your immune system.  You get more colds and feel run down.  Many of my friends are feeling tired and listless.  The evidence is overwhelming that a cumulative buildup of stress hormones, if not properly metabolized over time, can lead to disorders of our autonomic nervous system (causing headache, irritable bowel syndrome, high blood pressure and the like) and disorders of our hormonal and immune systems (creating susceptibility to infection, chronic fatigue, depression, and autoimmune diseases like rheumatoid arthritis, lupus and allergies. Positive fighter behavior may include confronting the issues, doing charity work, or starting a blog?  Negative fighting behaviors could be aggressiveness or argumentativeness. Similarly, flight behaviors can be positive or negative. Hopping on a flight out of Japan is a flight response, literally.  Withdrawing from social interaction, even by watching television or surfing the internet, could be viewed as a flight behavior.

We are all dealing with stress, anxiety and the uncertainty of the unknown. We need to learn a new normal. Social distancing doesn't mean isolation.  We can chat with friends through text, set up Netflix viewing parties, hold skype book clubs. It is important to maintain our social connections, over virtual margaritas or latte's.  We can work out more, channeling that adrenaline into a walk in the forest or on the beach. We can do yoga at home (yoga with Adriene on YouTube is an awesome free source). We can do charity work, there are SO many opportunities to help out right now, groups are forming locally and globally to help those most affected by coronavirus. Hourly workers will be especially hit as businesses shut down.  Be generous if you are able.  Buy gift certificates to give cash flow to local businesses that can be used at a later date.  A friend of mine is a fashion designer and was feeling helpless.  She decided to take some old fabric she had leftover and sewed up face masks to donate to the hospital where supplies are running short. She says, "surprisingly, the sense of purpose and contribution has made me feel loads better and less tired."

We can update Facebook with helpful information and share tips.  We can try not to obsess about the news and try to keep our kid’s routines as normal as possible. We can take the time to clear out the clutter of our lives and our minds.  You’ve been meaning to clean your closets and organize your photos, right? I found a wonderful meditation app that I love called Synctuition. It is a digital sound technology which relaxes the brain and stimulates intuition. Through a unique combination of 3D soundscapes, gamma waves, binaural beats and personalized sound journeys, users are guided into deep relaxation and meditative states. Check it out in the app store

But we also make lots of mistakes.  We yell at our kids and lose patience too quickly.  We wonder how much screen time is appropriate. We are too indulgent in an attempt to make them less worried about the issues at hand.  We argue with our spouses when they seem to be oblivious to the stress we are facing.

Eating well, not too much, getting enough sleep, spending time with nature, getting enough exercise and being involved in community work is recommended.  In short, pretty much what you should be doing anyways.

Resiliency is the inborn way you cope in the midst of hardship.  If you are born resilient you are fortunate.  For others it will take some time to rebound from the trauma we’ve endured and to adapt to the new normal. 

Here’s one place to donate. 

COVID-19 Solidarity Response Fund. 

Since we launched it on Friday, more than 110,000 people have contributed almost 19 million U.S. dollars. 

These funds will help to buy diagnostic tests, supplies for health workers and support research and development.

If you would like to contribute, please go to who.int and click on the orange “Donate” button at the top of the page.

Hosting Waste Free

I’m not sure about you guys but my plans this holiday season are to keep the hygge vibe going strong and host as much as I can rather than going out. Not to try and be anti-social by any means, believe me I can fit a good 25 in my 700 sq foot apartment, but there’s something so cozy about staying in, controlling the music, picking at homemade tapas and not having to fight for a table or scream over music. Perhaps that’s just Manhattan style, but if you plan to be a little hermit like me, here are my plans for hosting waste free.

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When it comes to hosting, I generally try and keep it pretty simple in terms of what to serve food wise. If I need an ingredient that I know a friend has, I’ll ask them to bring something over to contribute to the spread. I generally try and make everything homemade including hummus and dips to accompany carrots, celery, broccoli and the like. I honestly used to just put out the vegetables for myself but have noticed people generally appreciate a healthy spread, and it truly does look beautiful when you lay it all out, a rainbow of colors that are even punchier in hue when they come from the farmer’s market. And yes, believe me they taste better too! With this kind of spread it’s easy to waste less because you don’t have to put everything out at once. Usually I’ll put out a base, see how the crowd is reacting, and add as I see necessary. Everything leftover I can snack on the rest of the week.

In terms of shopping, something I’ve changed this year has been shopping more and buying less. My husband and I used to spend upwards of $150-200 on groceries per week and I’d say we ended up throwing out at least a third of that simply because we couldn’t eat that much in time before it went bad. We both happen to eat a lot but between dinners out and travel, it never really got finished. So now, we both shop separately and only include what we really need for that week.

In case you’re making a bit more food, have your guests bring Tupperware so they can take home some leftovers too. Leftovers happen to be an absolute favorite of mine, but sometimes my husband will get sick of it after a day or two… This way your guests can enjoy a little bit extra as the week goes on and again, you’re helping alleviate the waste you may end up throwing out. Stasher Bags is a favorite single-use plastic replacement of mine. They seal up really well and are dishwasher and microwave safe!

If you’re trying to be conscious of your spending, encourage a potluck type night where everyone brings a dish or two to make up an entire meal. It’s a nice way to try foods you oftentimes wouldn’t make at home and is much easier on you in terms of hosting. Plus, less mess to clean up! If you’re worried about everything going together, just have your friends send what they’re bringing to a group chat or assign people different dishes to bring such as apps, mains, sides or desserts.

With regards to clean up, these are a few recipes below for your own air fresheners, bathroom and everyday cleaners using just a few household ingredients. Vodka-Citrus DIY air freshener, DIY all in one bathroom cleaner and the All purpose cleaner are a few of my personal favorites. Good on You also has some great suggestions on their website.

Some more things you can do to stay green while hosting are to use cloth napkins, save wine corks for future projects (for our wedding we used them as table number holders), ensure you save all the small scraps for composting, refrigerate all half empty bottles of wine that will help keep it fresh a little longer (unsurprisingly, we never seem to have issues with wasting wine…;), and get creative with recipes for leftovers.

Check out these items below to feature at your next dinner party:

A Conscious Holiday Season

The holiday season is fast approaching, and while it may feel necessary to tap into your consuming habits, we have some suggestions for you to go into the end of 2019 and to start off the new decade with a different mindset this time around!

Reuse decorations

Think about what you already have when it comes to the holidays. A lot of the time, we think we need to buy more decorations each year, but make sure and check out what you already have. You’ll be pleasantly surprised to see you may not need another plastic wreath or more plastic decorations to cover your tree. Think simple. Use what you have. Borrow what you need. Use things from around the home to make new decorations. Use this cold weather as a time to be creative and crafty at home.

Renting holiday outfits

The environmental impact on renting clothes versus buying the fast-fashion counterpart are not studied in detail quite yet. However, here are my inputs when it comes to ordering from sustainable companies online. We have to monitor shipping and returns, types of cleaning used after each use, packaging used and the like are done consciously as well. This article by Elle magazine sums up my concerns pretty well! I do however have hope that renting is a huge step in the right direction. It’s training customers to rethink buying for every event they have, and resorting to reusing what’s already out there, which is great! The first most wasteful part of the fashion industry is the production process. So if we can produce less and re-wear more of what we have, that’s a huge advantage. And if we can continue to increase the demand of renting, perhaps we’ll also start to consider greener options within the shipping, cleaning and packaging realms. While production is the ‘dirtiest’ in terms of harmfulness to the environment, other aspects such as energy usage, transportation, recycling, and recycling issues need to be addressed as well. Check out these rental platforms below.

Vacation Local/Take comfort in relaxation and staying put

Okay this is selfishly mostly for myself, but I tend to get overwhelmed by FOMO over the holidays, thinking I need to travel here, visit there, do that, see this. Because I have the time off, naturally, it makes sense to put the holidays to use and travel. But sometimes, it’s best to relax, stay home, visit the family, and take comfort in relaxation. I’ve been practicing this on the weekends, taking time for myself to catch up on work, catch up on silly shows on Netflix, read a book, and do it all guilt-free. I talked about this in a recent IG post on @ondutycitizen about taking comfort in staying put and not making any plans. So if you’re thinking about a last minute trip but can’t decide (guilty!) think about the alternative, staying home with friends and family, in a new light and while it is important to live in the now, perhaps you could save up and use that money for two bigger trips the following year. Plus you’ll be reducing your travel on airplanes by staying local which we all know is much better for the environment and C02 emissions. :)

Here are some cool travel trips on the Good Trade. They list a lot of cool destinations close to home (if you’re up for it), or stay put and cozy up at home with a blanket, a candle and a good book!

Carbon offsetting

Carbon offsetting is the act of purchasing carbon credits that will support companies and nonprofits that are working to cancel out C02 emissions either by sucking up the C02 (planting trees for example) or avoiding future emissions altogether by investing in clean energy technologies. There are a few arguments against offsetting, one being it doesn’t tackle the main issue of creating C02 emissions in the first place. Writer George Monbiot famously said: “Just as indulgences allowed the rich to feel better about sinful behavior without actually changing their ways, carbon offsets allow us to "buy complacency, political apathy and self-satisfaction". I personally use it not to exonerate myself, because beyond offsetting I really do try and be ‘green’ in many other aspects of my life. I use it to offset the travel I have to do for work, but I also do other things to combat climate change. With this balance, I think offsetting is okay. As long as we’re investing in other resources to tackle the climate crisis. It’s also important to make sure the company you’re investing in is legitimate. Here are a few of the top carbon offsetting companies below and this article has a great summary of the pros and cons of carbon offsetting.

Rethink gifts

Think about gifts that serve a purpose. Does the person you’re shopping for really need another Christmas card and scented candle? Or would they perhaps be more appreciative of a donation in their name? Here are some of our suggestions for ‘new age’ gifts. And if you buy something in physical form, think about how you’re going to wrap it, and get creative. We love the idea of using reusable wrapping paper, old fabric scraps, newspapers and reusing old cards by cutting out the side with writing and writing on the back of the clean side. There are a ton of ways to get creative that will not only help your wallet this holiday season but also help reduce the waste you create.

Shop smart

If you have a few things you need to buy this season, think before you buy. Think about its impact in your closet or the person you’re shopping for. Don’t buy on impulse. Imagine the piece in their home and think about the longevity of it. We often have to think about closet cleanses and spring cleans, so think about the absolute necessity of the purchase before you buy. Buying something isn’t bad per se, but shopping on an impulse may be!

Do your research before you buy.

  • On our site, we have curated a bunch of sustainable and ethical products from companies we believe in who are transparent about their business practices. Look to invest in companies who are open and honest about their production processes. For us, it’s better to invest in a company who acknowledges they’re not perfect but they’re trying to be better and who lists their goals for the near to far future.

  • Good On You rates companies based on their environmental impact. Check them out!!

Think used! Buying secondhand is one of the best things you can do. It alleviates the waste that ends up in the landfills and gives another life to clothes that are often in perfect condition. Here are some of our favorite used sites. Alternatively, you could shop at your local secondhand store. If you’re NYC based, Tokio 7 is a favorite of ours located in East Village.

Be smart about your sizes. A lot of the environmental harm from shopping online comes from returns and reorders. Make sure you measure your sizes, check out reviews to ensure you’re getting the perfect fit so you can avoid sending things back and forth.

Easy swaps

From plastic baggies for food storage to saran wrap and disposable razors, there’s an alternative for that. Here are our favorite swaps that help alleviate the plastic use in your home, and quite frankly for me personally, all of these swaps work better than the former alternative!

Visit the farmer’s market

I try and shop organic as much as is possible, but sometimes I still can’t wrap my head around the fact that even the ‘healthy’ stuff is wrapped in plastic, some which seems entirely unnecessary. One benefit of shopping at your local farmer’s market is it’s a lot easier to reduce the amount of plastic you’re purchasing. You can bring your own bags, put things straight from the crates into your reusables without having to think about wrapping anything in plastic. A lot of the time, the markets will have paper on site too if you absolutely need to wrap something up.

In addition, most of the stuff you’ll find at the market is local and in season. This helps alleviate the carbon used when food has to travel from far away. And if you think logically about it, it really doesn’t make sense to consume things that aren’t growing seasonally in your region. For thousands of years before us, hunters, gatherers and even our ancestors solely survived on what was in season at the moment. Let’s get back to basics.

If you need some more insight on why to shop local, check out this article. They sum it up quite easily.

Hosting lots? Keep your home sparkling with home made cleaners

Hosting over the holidays can require a lot of cleaning. And while it may feel necessary to break out the bleach spray that smells and feels like you’re killing all the bacteria in sight, you may want to think twice about using them as they can actually be harmful to your health. Here are a few of our favorite recipes below for your own air fresheners, bathroom and everyday cleaners using just a few household ingredients. Easy and effective! For more options, check out this article by Good On You.

Thanks for taking the time to read through this. I hope you collected some ideas to change up your approach to the holiday season. Believe me, I know a lot of this is easier said than done, but if we can take one small step at a time, have discussions about climate change and what we can all do to be better, we’ll inspire our friends followers and families to follow our lead. A lot of the imperative change we need is from the high ups, our government, our state officials, our president. So while it’s just as (if not more) important to get political, these are the small steps you can take this holiday season to positively change your sometimes unhealthy habits.

Your Off-Duty Holiday Guide for the On Duty Citizen

Recently on ‘What to Wear’, we featured some of our favorite holiday looks from staying warm in the wintertime to holiday gift guides and sequined dresses for New Year’s Eve. While that section of the site serves the purpose of quick inspiration, it’s also our intention to provide a little background information on all the brands we choose to feature so you can dive deep and find new companies to support with an ethos that resonates best with you.

For the holiday parties…

Reformation

RefScale tracks transparency of CO2, water, and waste savings
Factory ensures eco-friendly practices
Reusable totes, recycled hangers, and recycled clothing program
Carbon offsets available for purchase on site

Fame and Partners

Designed with (almost) zero-waste sustainable manufacturing platform
Craft everything to order; eliminates need for excess stock (and air conditioned, CO2-draining warehouses where stored)

Mother of Pearl

Launched “no frills”- first fully sustainable line of core classics
Tries to use less water and source materials to the seed
Replant trees with each tree cut down used to make product
Traceability through entire supply chain
Summer 2020 line, 5% of their materials were synthetics-working to phase out entirely

Matt and Nat

Transparent company working towards becoming better in their production
Works with vegan leather and recycled materials
One of their factories is certified under SA8000 Standard meaning all workers are paid well in a safe work environment

Beachy vacations…

Fisch

Handmade from Italian ECONYL® fabrics
ECONYL® is 100% regenerated nylon fiber crafted from abandoned fishing nets and other nylon waste found in the ocean
Fabric mill is two hours from their factory; minimizes carbon dioxide waste from excessive shipping
Every year FISCH donates 10% of global profits to the Healthy Seas initiative

Hereu

Engages with local artisans to preserve mediterranean craft in Spain
Uses local materials for production
Hereu works with a local factory in Barcelona and artisans in Majorca to produce all of its Spanish leather and woven straw bags

Vitamin A

Uses sustainable fabrics like EcoLux superfine jersey made from recycled nylon fiber
Choose factories that conserve water and energy use
Made in USA

Faithfull the Brand

Designed, sourced, produced in Bali
Hand-dying, hand-printing
Work with local factories, vendors and artisans in Bali and scaled factory growth over the past decade
Faithfull team visits factory weekly to ensure sustainable/ethical standards

Stay cozy this winter..

Ninety Percent

90% of distributed profits shared with charities and those who make collections
Consumers choose which charitable cause money goes to
Garments made in Bangladesh and Turkey in ethical factories
Use organic cotton and Tencel (working to find more sustainable solutions and fabrics)

AG Jeans

Donates to Charity: Water
Made in own vertically integrated facilities; ensures quality control
Production facilities utilize Ozone Technology; cuts water consumption by 50%
Also minimizes use of chemicals and energy
Many (not all) fabrics eco-friendly
Excess scraps collected for recycling on weekly basis and repurposed as insulation
Conducts announced/unannounced audits of suppliers’ facilities

Boy Smells Candle

Developed, mixed at the founder’s home in LA
Fragrance and natural oils
All-natural coconut oil and beeswax
Hand-poured in reusable glass vessel

Everlane

$5 of every Human collection purchase goes to ACLU
Hands-on relationships with factories
Transparent about costs with customers
Uses some natural fibers like recycled cotton

Patagonia

Promotes fair labor practices and safe working conditions
Protection and preservation of the environment
Takes responsibility for entire lifecycle of products
Works with outside auditor and an in-house corporate responsibility specialist to establish working conditions
1% of sales to grass-root activists
Goal to be carbon neutral across entire business including supply chain by 2025
As of 2018, 100% renewable electricity in retail stores in USA
Current practices/goals; measure impact, reduce impact, convert to renewable energy, capture carbon

Gift giving

Ilia Beauty

All cream lip products come in recycled packaging
Certified organic bio-active ingredients
Ethos: not all natural ingredients good for skin, not ever synthetic ingredients bad for skin, finds balance in using both
Ensures everything is safe for skin

Veja

Fair trade philosophy
Avoids retail markups by doing less advertising
Careful consideration of available materials

Soko

Uses technology to empower artisans
Working with artisans and connects them with international market
They're after an ethical fast fashion world
Their mobile-enabled virtual factory operates at a fraction of the cost of traditional production; gives more earnings to artisans

Stella McCartney x Parley

Stella McCartney
No leather or fur
First and only vegetarian luxury line
Transparent and always striving to be more sustainable

Parley
Yarn used from recycled and reclaimed ocean waste
Parley hosts talks to share state of the oceans and to get support for a related initiative or project
Work with companies on collaborative projects to better our oceans
Currently they have collaborations with American Express, Soma, Adidas, and Stella McCartney..

New Year’s Eve..

Rachel Comey

Uses fur/leather from animals that have died from natural causes
Conscious sourcing from tanneries in Peru
Small-scale batches

Fame and Partners

Designed with (almost) zero-waste sustainable manufacturing platform
Craft everything to order; eliminates need for excess stock (and air conditioned, CO2-draining warehouses where stored)

Reformation

RefScale tracks transparency of CO2, water, and waste savings
Factory ensures eco-friendly practices
Reusable totes, recycled hangers, and recycled clothing program
Working to become 100% sustainable (some materials still outsourced)
Offsets available for purchase on site, partner with Brazilian Rosewood Amazon Conservation Project and Bonneville Environmental Foundation (BEF) Water Restoration Program

Brother Vellies

Creates and sustains artisanal jobs within Africa
Transparent about who makes shoes and factories they're made in
Most shoes made with Kudu leather; animal byproduct from government mandated culling due to overpopulation
Other materials sourced from local farmers in Kenya and South Africa and are entirely byproducts from edible food industry
Many pieces are vegetable-dyed
Schedule large batch cargo shipments to reduce carbon footprint

Affordable Finds

Boyish Jeans

Uses 1/3 of water typically needed to make denim
Recycled materials for hangtags, hardware, labels and polybags
Ensure suppliers meet standards for social responsibility
Yarn, fabric and manufacturing facility within thirty miles of each other- less C02 footprint
Recycle all cutting waste

Threads 4 Thought

Uses sustainable materials like Organic Cotton, Recycled Polyester, and Lenzing Modal
Factories hold high certifications of ethical practices
Partners with International Rescue Committee

Everlane

$5 of every Human collection purchase goes to ACLU
Hands-on relationships with factories
Transparent about costs with customers
Uses some natural fibers like recycled cotton

Patagonia

Promotes fair labor practices and safe working conditions
Protection and preservation of the environment
Takes responsibility for entire lifecycle of products
Works with outside auditor and an in-house corporate responsibility specialist to establish working conditions
1% of sales to grass-root activists
Goal to be carbon neutral across entire business including supply chain by 2025
As of 2018, 100% renewable electricity in retail stores in USA
Current practices/goals; measure impact, reduce impact, convert to renewable energy, capture carbon

The Butterfly Effect

This post is written by Co-Founder (and mum of Britt), Maria Bromley

Some days I am more mindful than others.

Just remembering to bring my reusable shopping bags into the store from my car is a small victory. It's not a big deal but it's one less plastic bag that I use.  Each day that we make one mindful decision creates a ripple effect. Yesterday I made some choices. My family loves seltzer water. We go through cases of seltzer at a time.  I recycle the cans but yesterday I thought, I can do better.  I decided to invest in a Soda Stream.  We use it every day and have cut back dramatically on our recycled cans. I also switched from my single use coffee pods to a french press.  I didn't eliminate my pods entirely - as I love a quick shot of espresso - but I am reducing my usage and recycling the old pods.  I was surprised and pleased when I dropped off my bag of used pods at the UPS store, and the clerk said they get several dropped off everyday. People are waking up to the power of mindful decisions. It's such a hopeful sign for the future. 

If you're of a certain vintage, like me, you may have grown up learning about the 3 R's; reduce, reuse and recycle. Recently, this has been updated to the 5 R's; refuse, reduce, reuse, repurpose and recycle.  The extra R's, refuse and repurpose have been recently added. Refuse to buy things that jeopardize the long-term health of the planet. Vote with your wallet, in other words.  "Stop sucking" was a recent campaign to eliminate plastic straws. Eliminate the demand and the product will stop being produced, simple laws of economics. Repurpose allows us to take what has already been made and find different uses.  But repurpose is lower down in the order of priority because we want to stop products from being produced that we do not need and are damaging to the environment.

Recently the EU Parliament approved a ban on single use plastic.  Plastics make up over 80% of marine litter.  On a recent trip to Zanzibar we were staying near the beach and decided to take a walk. I grabbed a bag to pick up some of the litter along the way.  Within a few minutes we had so much trash we had to go back for more bags.  Zanzibar is on the east coast of Africa and much of the garbage floats across the ocean and lands on its shores. While it may seems thousands of miles away, the trash that floats to its beaches will eventually find its ways to our shores. 

This article is meant to be more about mindfulness than recycling. Every decision we make has an impact.  When we are mindful of our decisions, how they affect not only ourselves, but the rest of the world, we become aware of the power we have. There is a mathematical theory called the Butterfly effect that states that small, localized changes in a complex system can have large effects elsewhere. Next time you go for a walk, grab a bag, pick up some trash and think about the fact that you are metaphorically flapping your Butterfly wings and creating ripples around the world. 

-Maria Bromley, Mom Of Model

 
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Our Third Calm Before the Storm Event

Fashion week is an incredible time in our industry to show off your best looks, book your most exciting shows, head to the coolest parties and essentially skip all ideas of sleep. It’s what keeps our industry alive, fun an innovative but naturally with such pressure it’s hard to stay afloat. Collectively, my friend Dani and I have been modeling for over twenty years and believe us when we say we have first-hand experience of how difficult this time of the year can be, especially as a new model. That’s why we created our pre-fashion week event; Calm Before the Storm.

We want to create a community of models to lean on when the going gets tough so you can have a friend to wait at a casting with or to relax over a bottle of wine post shows. For us, what gets us through this industry and has enabled us to continue to model is how we’ve built each other up when we’re down and surrounded ourselves with likeminded girlbosses who inspire us to build side hustles and know how to brand our best selves. Because nowadays, it’s so much more than being a pretty face and we want to create a positive community, for the young new faces especially, to celebrate our friendships, accomplishments and to know we can stick together!

It’s been a beautiful evolution throughout the past year and was especially exciting to see even more new faces this time around. We’re so happy to have this event grow and it means a lot for us to have the support as well. In addition to our models, we love building up our community and showcasing our friends who are doing incredible side projects/hustles/jobs/foundations, you name it!! Our model hosts, Sinead Bovell from WAYE talks and Grace Mahary from Project Tsehigh opened up the evening with a beautiful talk on how they build their side hustles, how they found balance between that and modeling and how incredibly important it is to be active in your community and with your friends. Because as Grace mentioned, when you’re on your death bed you won’t remember what you made for this job or that show but you’ll remember all the incredible faces you met and experiences you created together. Amen!

Afterwards, our attendees got to check out the “vendors” (our amazing girlboss/guybosses who have super cool companies they run or work for). We love profiling them and showing off what they’re up to, from health coaches to trainers and eco-friendly laundromat enthusiasts. The idea is that we try to relate it to fashion week with healthy recipes for castings, best workouts for small hotel rooms or what to do if your flight gets delayed.

We also had AMAZING gift bags this year from the most amount of sponsors to date…Without this community, we wouldn't have been able to throw together such a fun night! Check out the sponsors and vendors below and scroll down for all our pictures.


Sponsors:

Sustainability was a big topic at our event today. Check out one of our favorite clothing brand’s Aday! From materials used to new-tech innovations that eliminate textile waste, this company is ahead of the curve in terms of sustainability and is a company Dani and I are both proud to say we have shot with! Tag your ADAY pics with @thisisaday, #thisisaday and enjoy $20 off your next order with their coupon.

Those beautiful oils and face masques you received are from Amberlight Beauty, a company started by Dominyka Gajauskaite. Dominyka ensures the best materials go into all of her products from rose to open your heart to chamomile for calming your senses. Find out more at @amberlightbeauty.

Our very own model mafia member Anastasija Titko gave us pamphlets on an organization that’s near and dear to her heart, The Isha Institute of Inner-Sciences. The foundation offers yoga and meditation programs and are always happy to host new members. A nice way to keep calm before fashion week. Check them out!

Those awesome flower pouches with the mineral eye shadows were given to us by Boho Chic Cosmetics. They are all about clean, fun beauty that is made in small batches, vegan and cruelty-free!

The CUTEST toothbrush packages were provided to you all from BOKA. They’re a mindful oral care company that stresses the importance of working with our bodies, not against them. See all their fun pics and share yours @boka!

Did we not have the coolest hosts and event space?? We have Celsious to thank for that! This eco-friendly laundromat in Williamsburg gives you the low-down on how to wash your clothes in the ‘cleanest’ (pun intended) way, all whilst being better for the environment. They also have a café you can hang out at while you wait for your load to finish, and honestly even though Dani and I both have laundry in our buildings we’ve come for a hang out at this space because it is simply so cute and so well-done! Congrats to the founders Theresa and Corinna on such a successful space!

EcoEnclose provides sustainable solutions for packaging and sent us all those beautiful recycled paper bags for your goodie bags! (Britt uses them for all her ODC shipping!) and they’re incredibly easy to work with. Check out their Instagram @ecoenclose.

For Days provided us with those awesome pouches with gift cards inside to use for their zero-waste shop that closes the loop on fashion waste. Pick a tee, wear it endlessly, return when done and you’ll receive a fresh new tee while they recycle and reuse your old one! Fashion waste problem solved!

You know that face spa Dani and I are always posting from?? That’s Glo Spa and they graciously donated us coupons for 20% off your next facial! They’re located in the financial district. Enjoy;)

Our favorite kombucha drinks were provided by Health Ade! We’re absolutely addicted! If you are too, check out more information or share your pics @healthade.

Herbivore Botanicals provided us with one of our favorite face products, their popular rose hibiscus hydrating face mist. Dani and I both love spraying our face with this product every morning to wake up and it’s the perfect thing to keep your skin hydrated on a long flight. Their products are made in U.S.A. and never tested on animals!

High Brew donated all those incredible cans of coffee that are protein-packed and will be perfect to sip on between all your crazy castings and shows. This should help keep your energy up!

INTO app helped us so much by promoting the event on their app. We were able to reach out to even more models which is what this event is all about, building our model community! For model-events and products to use that are often free or heavily discounted, check out their app which you can download here.

Jaw x Jawshop by Tim Jaw has always been one of our biggest supporters! His awesome line of locally made basics and fun socks and scrunchies, an ode to the 80s, are the perfect thing you need for brunch on the weekend with your crew. 

Joya Studio has given us awesome roll-on samples of their fragrances to keep you smelling fresh and clean during the fashion week season. Their ingredients are simple, locally-sourced and to top it off they have sustainable packaging which we’re such big fans of! They’re a personal favorite of mine to use while traveling!

Lighthouse BK is one of our absolute favorite restaurants in Brooklyn and gave us those awesome bites for us to eat at our event. They are on their way to being completely zero-waste and they don’t let that sacrifice on taste or presentation. They employ a number of organizations in their community from composting to cork recycling and the Billion Oyster Project where they donate all their used oyster shells each week.

Magic Mix Juicery offered us samples of their aloe shots. Super tasty, good for digestion, and anti-inflammatory! Have them on their own or pop them into a smoothie or glass of water. You can find those aloe shots and many more treats at their location in Financial District!

You got some awesome samples and drinks made at the event by Mr. Maks Ginbao Tea! I can personally attest to the fact that this alkalized beverage with ingredients like ginger, ginseng, honey and lemongrass are the perfect combination to thirst your quench and help calm your stomach if you have a little ache. Enjoy warm or cold. And no, there aren’t crazy amounts of added sugars to worry about. We’re huge fans!

Parcelle Wine is a curated wine shop and the first retail concept from Delicious Hospitality Group, the team behind NYC restaurants Charlie Bird, Pasquale Jones, and Legacy Records. Parcelle’s offerings reflect the best of the wine programs for which DHG’s restaurants are known. Hopefully their wine helped you relax as you headed into your fashion week shenanigans!

RYU is an incredible clothing line created for the urban athlete that moves with you. They stand for respect, and they are #BeautifulTough. Check them out @ryu_apparel and enjoy your new, sleek water bottles!

Seaweed Bath Co. provided us with awesome goodies form their detox cream and scrub to their fabulous serums. They’re one of our favorite skin/body/haircare products that are clean for the environment, nutrient-rich and performance-optimized. All seaweed in their products are sourced and certified organic from the coast of Maine!

The ladies of Shiffon Co. donated one special ring to the winner of our raffle (congrats Kaye-Li!!!). The founders are two badass entrepreneurial babes who balance finishing their degree at their Ivy league schools and managing this business. Michelle Obama, Christy Turlington and Serena Williams have been seen wearing their famous pinky promise rings that support women entrepreneurs with the sale of each ring.

Silk Philosophy gave us each a silk accessory to spice up each of our black on black fashion week uniforms. The silk accessories sell primarily as bracelets, but they could be worn as mini scarves/chokers, hair ribbons, or handbag charms. All silk bracelets are made of high quality silks in limited quantities and the patterns never repeat. 

Simply Suzette has graciously provided you all with a coupon for her site that sells eco-friendly and ethical jean brands. Denim is one of the dirtiest industries out there so this is her way of trying to help promote the companies doing it right! And I’m telling you they’re my personal favorite pair of jeans I own. And I don’t have to feel guilty about wearing them because I know they’re made with integrity and better for the environment than the traditional jean.

We got the perfect fashion week treat for your all from Snow Monkey! Now you can enjoy your fashion week cravings without the guilt attached. All Snow Monkey ice creams are plant-based, paleo, and high protein!

Tulerie gifted us with those awesome reusable straws!! Make sure and sign up for their clothes-sharing app, especially useful during your fashion week antics!! ;)

Here’s some takeaway info about the lovely vendors we had set up around the room.

Vendors:

Daniel Gottlieb was there to help us with all our sore, achy muscles. Dan is a brand ambassador for RYU and Hyperice, He has weekly workouts at Bandier's Studio B that are great for relaxing your muscles and stretching you out! We all need more of that! Check out his Instagram to learn more and DM his for more info on his classes!

Dawn Gallagher  was there to share her story about using your voice in this industry and how powerful it is to share your story. What an incredible example for all of us! She’s been there, she’s done that and she’s here to pave the way for us as change makers in this industry! She also is passionate about Drawdown, an event that is all about sustainable green living and teaching us all we need to know about drawing down carbon in our atmosphere, something incredibly important as we head into fashion week, often with a lot of travel and flying.

Dominyka Gajauskaite started her own skin care line as a result of being sick of the unfriendly products being used on her face time and time again. Stay in the know about all her products @amberlightbeauty! In addition to all her incredible samples that she gives us for each and every event, Dominyka was especially helpful in organizing this event for us. From new sponsorships to organization in general, Dominyka was a HUGE help for this event and we’re especially helpful for all she has done for us.

Grace Mahary was our top model speaker who couldn’t have given us better advice. Remember, it’s all about the experiences you make and the relationships you form, not about the superficial things in life! In addition to killing it as one of Canada’s top models, Grace started her very own foundation, Project Tsehigh which provides clean energy to impoverished communities around the world.

Our favorite relaxing facials were provided to you by Face Love! They made our event that much more special and have been collaborating with us on events for the past three years, something we’re so thankful for! Check them out in at their new flagship in the Flatiron. Dani and I will be there next week;)

Jonathan Glass from Mr. Maks was our awesome bartender for the night, creating mixed drinks using their Ginbao Teas. Healthy, low sugar, and super settling for the stomach with calming ingredients like ginger and lemon.

KW Travel  was our awesome travel agent who answered all your questions about flying, how to attain status, some awesome trip itinerary ideas for you and your girlfriends and so much more. I’m personally someone who loves to create my own itineraries but after seeing the attention to detail, I handed over all my honeymoon plans and will be working with Katherine for our upcoming trip to Italy.

You heard all about the Model Mafia from one of our members, Kaye-Li Taylor. It is our incredible social impact and activism focused group and together we take collective action and share causes we care about with each other. The group marched in the DC Climate March demanding a cleaner fashion industry and world, raised $12,000 for the Standing Rock community, and has been tackling sexual harassment in the fashion industry. If you would like are to join, please send an email and agency link to modelmafialistoversight@gmail.com and follow the tribe @modelactivist.

Shivani Persad and Samantha Bolger have their very own podcast, More Than Model Radio where they interview models about what they’re passionate about beyond modeling! If you want a chance to be interviewed, hit them up on Instagram! Listen HERE for previous episodes.

Sinead Bovell of WAYE was our incredible host this evening who interviewed Grace Mahary on how she’s balanced modeling with her side business, Project Tsehigh. For inspiration on how to create your own business and brand, check our Sinead’s side hustle, WAYE (weekly advice for the young entrepreneur) and make sure to come to one of her upcoming WAYE talks. I can’t say more than they’re on of the few events that I actually look forward to attending. She’s inspiring and a complete go-getter and will give you all the inside knowledge on tech, business and the future. Check her out!

Tulerie  was in attendance, one of the coolest new platforms of digital “shopping”. I without a doubt think this will be the way of the future; a concept that lets you lend and borrow from your friends without braking your bank or contributing to the fabric waste created by fast fashion and consumerism. And if you do want to shop, invest in that piece that will last you a lifetime and put it on the app so you can make some money off your purchase from your friends who want to borrow the piece as well! We’re all about a brand that works on closing the loop on waste.

Our event photos were taken by Ryan J. Ulsh. He’s been a dear friend to Dani and I and we’ve also collaborated a ton on test shoots together. I’ll often organize shoots with him and my agents have used A TON of our shots, many of them still in my book to this day. Follow his photography adventures on J. Ryan Ulsh or Jryanulsh.Studio

An analysis on the Life of the Plastic Straw

2018 was a popular year for the little plastic straw. Something that seems so insignificant is popped into every single one of our drinks, whether we need it or not, without the slightest thought on its purpose or necessity. Think about it, if you ask for a glass of water, almost always it’s accompanied by a big plastic straw that we often discard before we even take our first sip. So what switched? There were viral videos of sea turtles with straws being stuck in their nostrils and people began to pay attention to the the little straw and began wondering how else straws were negatively harming our planet and what we could do.

The thing about the plastic straw is that it’s tangible. We all see its overabundant use in restaurants and bars, have used it to stir a drink for one second then tossed it to the side only the repeat the same procedure for our next drink and the drink after that, with one or two straws in each water we order in between. Why the sudden overuse of them? While they were originally created for making things a little easier to drink, in the 1930s they gained popularity when  an inventor wanted to make it easier for his daughter to drink a milkshake. From that, the straws are mass-produced by a system selling people things they don’t really need, for the most part. Consumers of course took advantage of it and now we’re left with another over-consumed product with of course, inevitable backlash. We can see the waste. On our beaches, straws are often one of the top ten items collected globally on the coastlines

It was once quoted that in the U.S. alone, 500 million straws are used EVERY DAY. That seems like an incredible amount that’s hard to picture exactly how many that truly is. Here are some figures to put it into perspective… “500 million straws could fill over 127 school buses each day, or more than 46,400 school buses every year.. 500 million straws per day is an average of 1.6 straws per person (in the US) per day. Based on this national average, each person in the US will use approximately 38,000 or more straws between the ages of 5 and 65.” While I’m not 100% that this stat is entirely accurate, it goes without saying that whatever the number is, it is high and there is something we can do about it. 

So what can we do? There are a ton of alternate options out there, here are my favorite options ranking from best to last:

  • No straw (no waste)

  • Bamboo straw (sturdy, dishwasher safe, light)

  • Metal straws (sturdy, dishwasher safe, easy to clean, not good for hot beverages)

  • Glass straws (sturdy, easy to clean, but breakable)

  • Paper straws (trendy and fun but don’t last and wasteful to produce)

    • Why the hate for paper? It’s similar to the debate between plastic and paper bags. 

    • A study done last year by Denmark’s Ministry of Environment and Food found that paper bags need to be reused at least 43 times for its per-use environmental impacts to be less than that of typical plastic bag used once. 

    • You choose between plastic, reusable and less energy to make but not biodegradable or paper, harder to reuse, a ton of energy to make but biodegradable…Truthfully, neither is “good”

There’s a few things to note when talking about banning the straws. For one, a large population of our world needs them. It’s easy for anyone who isn’t physically challenged to say “no straw”, 

“I don’t use those”, “who would need a plastic straw”, or to even look down upon people who order them. When I saw the video of the turtle, I knew I would try my best to say no when the opportunity presented itself, pretty much always, but I vowed to myself to never shame anyone who forgot to say “no straw”. Check out this article by Alden Wicker of EcoCult. She talks about the necessity to address the issue of plastic waste but to be flexible with the movement and open to people who actually need the straw. Banning something that certain people’s lives depend upon is ridiculous and we should by no means shame anyone. With my decisions I make about the sustainable movement, I hope to influence many people in my community to do whatever they can. We need to keep this in mind. 

I loved Alden’s idea about an opt-in system when talking about the straw ban movement. Instead of the waiters at restaurants automatically putting a straw in every single drink, they always need to have them on hand and you have to say when you order “I need a plastic straw”. That in itself will heavily cut down the amount wasted at each restaurant yet no one who actually needs one will (hopefully) not be looked down upon. 

While I support the movement to use less straws, some feel the movement to falls extremely short. Sure, plastic straws are overused and create a lot of waste but many argued that this movement failed to address something bigger that is creating much more waste than the straw.  The commercialized fishing net, and other plastic waste in general. Straws are an easy target because many people can do without them. I don’t question the necessity of the plastic straw movement, I think any movement is a step in the positive direction but my argument would be that it shouldn’t stop there. 

Have you ever seen a commercialized size fishing net in the middle of the Great Pacific Garbage Patch; the largest accumulation of ocean plastic? The patch is estimated to be 1.6 million square kilometers, twice the size of Texas and having 46% of the weight be taken up by fishing nets. Plastic tends to get stuck in these large gyres or patches and disintegrate with all the sun exposure and natural currents until it’s into tiny pieces, called micro plastics, that we oftentimes can’t even see. Years ago we would see occasional pieces of plastic found in sea turtles but now, with all the micro plastics forming and floating around, 100% of all sea turtles have some form of plastic they have ingested. 59% of all seabirds have plastic found in them and more than 25% of fish sampled from all around the world has plastic in it. That’s an issue that goes above and beyond the straw movement that we have to address. 

The plastic that litters our oceans are becoming much more of a problem. We can’t ignore it. Plastic debris, both micro plastics (particles less than 5mm) and macro plastics (larger than 5mm) are positively related to the mismanaged plastic waste generated by river catchments. To me, the straw movement was the catalyst for bigger change. While China for instance is the biggest producer of plastic waste, it also is now making huge efforts to avoid this. 

Other countries that are now coming into wealth like the Philippines, Thailand and Vietnam, are huge contributors to the plastic waste issue. With the rise of GDP levels in many of these East Asian countries comes benefits that we often overlook like the convenience of to-go Tupperware or the ease of a plastic bag to carry your goods, better yet, drinkable water in plastic bottles! But what these places don’t think about is the infrastructure needed to deal with the waste that comes from development. If we are to address the need for waste-management infrastructure in these five countries alone, China, Indonesia, the Philippines, Thailand and Vietnam, it is estimated we can significantly reduce global leakage of plastic waste into the ocean by 2025, potentially by 45%!

So where does that leave us? 

Well, theres a few things I have in mind for trying to make a change..

This article, again written by Alden Wicker of EcoCult talked about her challenge going plastic-free on her recent trip to India. There was balance achieved between being a good guest, accepting where plastic was sometimes needed but doing the best she could, remembering to bring a water bottle, utensils, avoiding straws where possible and the like. But we have to remember these developing economies are vastly different from the U.S. Oftentimes to a waiter in India, providing good service is of utmost importance to them. Figuring out what “no straw” means while trying to remember how to speak English and treat your guest well comes with a huge learning curve.

When we’re visiting these East Asian countries we have to be supportive of the new cycle of growth they’re going through and dealing with. Improving governance and rooting out corruption for example. What we can do is influence them and work with them to realize the importance of tackling change now. They are blessed because they haven’t gotten as used to the readily available use of plastic as much as the Western society has. When we travel, we can reduce our plastic intake and show them it’s possible to live life easily without it. We can stop shipping our waste to them and deal with it ourselves. We can show them certain technological advancements that are making it easier to recycle plastics and show how they can discard it. And we can influence them to stop producing plastic altogether and use another biodegradable alternative at the same time.

While most of the plastic waste is coming from East Asia, we can continue to do our best efforts at home. Things like the three R's; reduce, reuse, recycle...and remember they should be in that order. 

  • Reducing our purchases (being conscious consumers)

  • Reusing things whenever possible

  • Recycling after you attempt to reduce and reuse. 

  • Eating less fish (less fish, less need for fishing, less fishing nets. Supply, demand)

  • Avoid plastic bags

  • Saying no to straws when we can

  • Voting for change

  • Marching for change 

  • Reducing meat intake

  • Composting

  • Paying for carbon offsetting

  • Switch to reusables

    • Reusable bags, Tupperware, coffee mugs, water bottles, etc. 

While 2018 was the year of the plastic straw, let's make 2019 the year of tackling all plastic. We’re addicted to it and with fighting addiction comes arguments, fight back, disagreements and disbelief. But the facts are there. The fish have plastic in them. The turtles are eating plastic and our world will suffer from that. Humans live off the Earth and the oceans are the veins that pump life into us all. Let us tackle plastic waste, something we have so easily lived without before the 1930s, and switch to a reusable, biodegradable material that closes the loop on waste and refreshes our oceans with life and air. The Earth’s ten-year challenge brought upon devastation from pictures of deforestation, ice melting, and oceans and rivers littered with plastic waste. Let’s reverse that trend and make pictures in 2029 that we’re proud of.