Togetherness and Creativeness; Things to Keep Us Going During COVID-19

Gone are the days where we can meet up with friends, have Sunday dinners with loved ones, or simply go to our favorite workout class; our normal routine that I’m sure lots of us took for granted. I know I did. So, how can we stay connected even though we may be physically separated?  

I’ve seen a bunch of things popping up on the internet and social media about ways we can change up our normal routines, but find comfort in these new circumstances we’re all forced to be in. It can feel overwhelming at first, for me especially I tend to shrink at the thought that I should be more productive during this time, simply because I have so much more free time. If I feel pressure that I should be accomplishing that much more, it will oftentimes have the opposite effect on my productivity. My husband however thrives at the prospect of all these new, oftentimes, creative ways in which we can keep busy. He loves when he feels useful and productive, whether someone is telling him to be so or not. I guess a lot of the times I have to come to my creativeness on my own terms.  

While sometimes my coping mechanisms revolve around staring at a screen all day being anything but productive, I have found it encouraging to see new ways in which we can tap into our creative side, whenever we feel the urge to do so. My husband loves lists like this, so if you’re anything like him I think you’ll enjoy the plethora of suggestions. If you’re like me, you can take this list with a grain of salt. if you’re having a good day and feel like you need some more art in your life or simply want to throw on the latest virtual MET concert as you fall asleep at night, check it out. 

This is a time filled with anxiety, sleepless nights, and simply the unknown of how long, and how bad this will get is unsettling. But if we can use this time to learn from each other and grow stronger from this terrible pandemic, to support the arts, support our local businesses who are strugglingthen I think we can grow exceptionally stronger from this whole situation. This affects us all disproportionately, I know I oftentimes feel bad, to feel bad, seeing as I have a lovely home to quarantine in and a supportive partner that lifts me up when I’m feeling my worst, but all our problems are valid and it’s how we try and make the most of this situation and come together even though we’re apart that we’ll get through this. See you on the other side. 

 

INTROVERTS:

  • Free audio books on Audible

  • Or video games I guess… like my husband is into…

THE ARTS:

  • A lot of museums are offering free virtual tours. Musee D’orsay is a favorite of mine, check it out! Skip the line, virtually, for free!

  • Or check out Marquee TV (basically Netflix for the arts)

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 MUSIC MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND:

  • The arts are what helps us get through the tough times, yet it’s artists and musicians that will have some of the hardest times getting through this recession. The MET is offering free streaming of their concerts every night. 

  • Celebrities are joining in by offering free concerts via streaming; Miley Cyrus, John Legend and Willie Nelson have hosted virtual concerts, check out the hashtag #TogetherAtHome to find more virtual concerts to come

  • My father in law, Kim Mitchell hosted a concert on Facebook Live, check it out here!

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 CHEERS! :

  • In lieu of supporting small businesses, a lot of our favorite bars are finding it difficult to stay afloat. If you’re NYC based, try ordering a big batch of premade cocktails from The Garret (and then host a virtual happy hour with friends!)

  •  If you’re outside of NYC, get creative by making your own cocktails. This is a favorite of mine; the Paper Plane.

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 KEEP THE PARTY GOING:

  • In addition to virtual happy hours, join Zoom or Google Hangout to connect with friends, celebrate each other’s birthday parties, or to meet new people. 

  • Club Quarantine is hosting an online queer party every night of the quarantine. 21:00-00:00 ET on zoom app.

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 FEED ME:

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 STAY ACTIVE TO SUPPORT ALL YOUR BINGE EATING:

  • Beyond feeling good, a lot of the workouts I previously did were to stay fit because I had to for work. While I thought I would lessen the amount of movement I did seeing as I’ll be out of work for a while, I realized that it actually helps me alleviate stress and anxiety and is a great tool to get through these times. So, keep moving!! For you, and not because you have to. 

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 SUPPORT SMALL BUSINESSES:

  • If you can shop locally from that mom & pop store that’s still open versus another Amazon order! 

  • If you’re ordering in, leave a box of snacks and water for your local delivery man, they’re still out there working and keeping us afloat, let them know you appreciate them!

  • Order takeout from that Indian or Chinese restaurant you’ve been wanting to try. A lot of these small businesses will not survive, do what you can to support them during these rough times 

HOW TO BE A SUCCESSFUL ENTREPRENEUR:

  • My friend Sinead Bovell, founder of Waye Talks is giving out weekly advice for the young entrepreneur. Check out her site for incredible advice on entrepreneurship and simple solutions on how to stay motivated and productive during this pandemic. 

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 GET SMART:

  • No more excuses!! Seeing as I only completed one year at UofT before moving to NYC full-time to pursue modeling, now is my time to get back into academics!

  • This is a great resource, as is this class by Yale which is now offering their most popular class to date for free! And the topic is without a doubt going to help you get through these depressing times. 

 REWATCH THE TORONTO RAPTORS WIN AGAIN, AND AGAIN, AND AGAIN: 

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 NIHONGO O MANABU (LEARN JAPANESE): 

  • All I can seem to remember is how to order a beer and food (useful), but perhaps I should re-learn a bit more… Check out this site!

BE CALM: 

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 NETFLIX, DRINK, AND CHILL:

  • A new way to watch Netflix together with friends; Netflix Party, check it out!!

TRYING TO STAY SUSTAINABLE? : 

  • It’s okay to feel overwhelmed at the prospect of having to use more plastic when stocking up on goods during this pandemic. Look at sustainability in a new lens. Lauren Singer, founder of Package Free Shop sums it up pretty perfectly in her latest Instagram post.

I’m thankful for all of those putting their lives on risk to support the economy and keep us all safe. The heroes who work in hospitals, doctors offices, delivery men, firefighters, small businesses who are being hit hard more than ever. These are tough times, but we will get stronger from this. We’ll have good days, and terrible days, but we will learn from this and grow together even stronger than before. Thank you again for everyone staying inside, washing their hands, and continuing to follow protocol. Do it for your loved ones, the elderly, your friends, and own family.

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Our Third Calm Before the Storm Event

Fashion week is an incredible time in our industry to show off your best looks, book your most exciting shows, head to the coolest parties and essentially skip all ideas of sleep. It’s what keeps our industry alive, fun an innovative but naturally with such pressure it’s hard to stay afloat. Collectively, my friend Dani and I have been modeling for over twenty years and believe us when we say we have first-hand experience of how difficult this time of the year can be, especially as a new model. That’s why we created our pre-fashion week event; Calm Before the Storm.

We want to create a community of models to lean on when the going gets tough so you can have a friend to wait at a casting with or to relax over a bottle of wine post shows. For us, what gets us through this industry and has enabled us to continue to model is how we’ve built each other up when we’re down and surrounded ourselves with likeminded girlbosses who inspire us to build side hustles and know how to brand our best selves. Because nowadays, it’s so much more than being a pretty face and we want to create a positive community, for the young new faces especially, to celebrate our friendships, accomplishments and to know we can stick together!

It’s been a beautiful evolution throughout the past year and was especially exciting to see even more new faces this time around. We’re so happy to have this event grow and it means a lot for us to have the support as well. In addition to our models, we love building up our community and showcasing our friends who are doing incredible side projects/hustles/jobs/foundations, you name it!! Our model hosts, Sinead Bovell from WAYE talks and Grace Mahary from Project Tsehigh opened up the evening with a beautiful talk on how they build their side hustles, how they found balance between that and modeling and how incredibly important it is to be active in your community and with your friends. Because as Grace mentioned, when you’re on your death bed you won’t remember what you made for this job or that show but you’ll remember all the incredible faces you met and experiences you created together. Amen!

Afterwards, our attendees got to check out the “vendors” (our amazing girlboss/guybosses who have super cool companies they run or work for). We love profiling them and showing off what they’re up to, from health coaches to trainers and eco-friendly laundromat enthusiasts. The idea is that we try to relate it to fashion week with healthy recipes for castings, best workouts for small hotel rooms or what to do if your flight gets delayed.

We also had AMAZING gift bags this year from the most amount of sponsors to date…Without this community, we wouldn't have been able to throw together such a fun night! Check out the sponsors and vendors below and scroll down for all our pictures.


Sponsors:

Sustainability was a big topic at our event today. Check out one of our favorite clothing brand’s Aday! From materials used to new-tech innovations that eliminate textile waste, this company is ahead of the curve in terms of sustainability and is a company Dani and I are both proud to say we have shot with! Tag your ADAY pics with @thisisaday, #thisisaday and enjoy $20 off your next order with their coupon.

Those beautiful oils and face masques you received are from Amberlight Beauty, a company started by Dominyka Gajauskaite. Dominyka ensures the best materials go into all of her products from rose to open your heart to chamomile for calming your senses. Find out more at @amberlightbeauty.

Our very own model mafia member Anastasija Titko gave us pamphlets on an organization that’s near and dear to her heart, The Isha Institute of Inner-Sciences. The foundation offers yoga and meditation programs and are always happy to host new members. A nice way to keep calm before fashion week. Check them out!

Those awesome flower pouches with the mineral eye shadows were given to us by Boho Chic Cosmetics. They are all about clean, fun beauty that is made in small batches, vegan and cruelty-free!

The CUTEST toothbrush packages were provided to you all from BOKA. They’re a mindful oral care company that stresses the importance of working with our bodies, not against them. See all their fun pics and share yours @boka!

Did we not have the coolest hosts and event space?? We have Celsious to thank for that! This eco-friendly laundromat in Williamsburg gives you the low-down on how to wash your clothes in the ‘cleanest’ (pun intended) way, all whilst being better for the environment. They also have a café you can hang out at while you wait for your load to finish, and honestly even though Dani and I both have laundry in our buildings we’ve come for a hang out at this space because it is simply so cute and so well-done! Congrats to the founders Theresa and Corinna on such a successful space!

EcoEnclose provides sustainable solutions for packaging and sent us all those beautiful recycled paper bags for your goodie bags! (Britt uses them for all her ODC shipping!) and they’re incredibly easy to work with. Check out their Instagram @ecoenclose.

For Days provided us with those awesome pouches with gift cards inside to use for their zero-waste shop that closes the loop on fashion waste. Pick a tee, wear it endlessly, return when done and you’ll receive a fresh new tee while they recycle and reuse your old one! Fashion waste problem solved!

You know that face spa Dani and I are always posting from?? That’s Glo Spa and they graciously donated us coupons for 20% off your next facial! They’re located in the financial district. Enjoy;)

Our favorite kombucha drinks were provided by Health Ade! We’re absolutely addicted! If you are too, check out more information or share your pics @healthade.

Herbivore Botanicals provided us with one of our favorite face products, their popular rose hibiscus hydrating face mist. Dani and I both love spraying our face with this product every morning to wake up and it’s the perfect thing to keep your skin hydrated on a long flight. Their products are made in U.S.A. and never tested on animals!

High Brew donated all those incredible cans of coffee that are protein-packed and will be perfect to sip on between all your crazy castings and shows. This should help keep your energy up!

INTO app helped us so much by promoting the event on their app. We were able to reach out to even more models which is what this event is all about, building our model community! For model-events and products to use that are often free or heavily discounted, check out their app which you can download here.

Jaw x Jawshop by Tim Jaw has always been one of our biggest supporters! His awesome line of locally made basics and fun socks and scrunchies, an ode to the 80s, are the perfect thing you need for brunch on the weekend with your crew. 

Joya Studio has given us awesome roll-on samples of their fragrances to keep you smelling fresh and clean during the fashion week season. Their ingredients are simple, locally-sourced and to top it off they have sustainable packaging which we’re such big fans of! They’re a personal favorite of mine to use while traveling!

Lighthouse BK is one of our absolute favorite restaurants in Brooklyn and gave us those awesome bites for us to eat at our event. They are on their way to being completely zero-waste and they don’t let that sacrifice on taste or presentation. They employ a number of organizations in their community from composting to cork recycling and the Billion Oyster Project where they donate all their used oyster shells each week.

Magic Mix Juicery offered us samples of their aloe shots. Super tasty, good for digestion, and anti-inflammatory! Have them on their own or pop them into a smoothie or glass of water. You can find those aloe shots and many more treats at their location in Financial District!

You got some awesome samples and drinks made at the event by Mr. Maks Ginbao Tea! I can personally attest to the fact that this alkalized beverage with ingredients like ginger, ginseng, honey and lemongrass are the perfect combination to thirst your quench and help calm your stomach if you have a little ache. Enjoy warm or cold. And no, there aren’t crazy amounts of added sugars to worry about. We’re huge fans!

Parcelle Wine is a curated wine shop and the first retail concept from Delicious Hospitality Group, the team behind NYC restaurants Charlie Bird, Pasquale Jones, and Legacy Records. Parcelle’s offerings reflect the best of the wine programs for which DHG’s restaurants are known. Hopefully their wine helped you relax as you headed into your fashion week shenanigans!

RYU is an incredible clothing line created for the urban athlete that moves with you. They stand for respect, and they are #BeautifulTough. Check them out @ryu_apparel and enjoy your new, sleek water bottles!

Seaweed Bath Co. provided us with awesome goodies form their detox cream and scrub to their fabulous serums. They’re one of our favorite skin/body/haircare products that are clean for the environment, nutrient-rich and performance-optimized. All seaweed in their products are sourced and certified organic from the coast of Maine!

The ladies of Shiffon Co. donated one special ring to the winner of our raffle (congrats Kaye-Li!!!). The founders are two badass entrepreneurial babes who balance finishing their degree at their Ivy league schools and managing this business. Michelle Obama, Christy Turlington and Serena Williams have been seen wearing their famous pinky promise rings that support women entrepreneurs with the sale of each ring.

Silk Philosophy gave us each a silk accessory to spice up each of our black on black fashion week uniforms. The silk accessories sell primarily as bracelets, but they could be worn as mini scarves/chokers, hair ribbons, or handbag charms. All silk bracelets are made of high quality silks in limited quantities and the patterns never repeat. 

Simply Suzette has graciously provided you all with a coupon for her site that sells eco-friendly and ethical jean brands. Denim is one of the dirtiest industries out there so this is her way of trying to help promote the companies doing it right! And I’m telling you they’re my personal favorite pair of jeans I own. And I don’t have to feel guilty about wearing them because I know they’re made with integrity and better for the environment than the traditional jean.

We got the perfect fashion week treat for your all from Snow Monkey! Now you can enjoy your fashion week cravings without the guilt attached. All Snow Monkey ice creams are plant-based, paleo, and high protein!

Tulerie gifted us with those awesome reusable straws!! Make sure and sign up for their clothes-sharing app, especially useful during your fashion week antics!! ;)

Here’s some takeaway info about the lovely vendors we had set up around the room.

Vendors:

Daniel Gottlieb was there to help us with all our sore, achy muscles. Dan is a brand ambassador for RYU and Hyperice, He has weekly workouts at Bandier's Studio B that are great for relaxing your muscles and stretching you out! We all need more of that! Check out his Instagram to learn more and DM his for more info on his classes!

Dawn Gallagher  was there to share her story about using your voice in this industry and how powerful it is to share your story. What an incredible example for all of us! She’s been there, she’s done that and she’s here to pave the way for us as change makers in this industry! She also is passionate about Drawdown, an event that is all about sustainable green living and teaching us all we need to know about drawing down carbon in our atmosphere, something incredibly important as we head into fashion week, often with a lot of travel and flying.

Dominyka Gajauskaite started her own skin care line as a result of being sick of the unfriendly products being used on her face time and time again. Stay in the know about all her products @amberlightbeauty! In addition to all her incredible samples that she gives us for each and every event, Dominyka was especially helpful in organizing this event for us. From new sponsorships to organization in general, Dominyka was a HUGE help for this event and we’re especially helpful for all she has done for us.

Grace Mahary was our top model speaker who couldn’t have given us better advice. Remember, it’s all about the experiences you make and the relationships you form, not about the superficial things in life! In addition to killing it as one of Canada’s top models, Grace started her very own foundation, Project Tsehigh which provides clean energy to impoverished communities around the world.

Our favorite relaxing facials were provided to you by Face Love! They made our event that much more special and have been collaborating with us on events for the past three years, something we’re so thankful for! Check them out in at their new flagship in the Flatiron. Dani and I will be there next week;)

Jonathan Glass from Mr. Maks was our awesome bartender for the night, creating mixed drinks using their Ginbao Teas. Healthy, low sugar, and super settling for the stomach with calming ingredients like ginger and lemon.

KW Travel  was our awesome travel agent who answered all your questions about flying, how to attain status, some awesome trip itinerary ideas for you and your girlfriends and so much more. I’m personally someone who loves to create my own itineraries but after seeing the attention to detail, I handed over all my honeymoon plans and will be working with Katherine for our upcoming trip to Italy.

You heard all about the Model Mafia from one of our members, Kaye-Li Taylor. It is our incredible social impact and activism focused group and together we take collective action and share causes we care about with each other. The group marched in the DC Climate March demanding a cleaner fashion industry and world, raised $12,000 for the Standing Rock community, and has been tackling sexual harassment in the fashion industry. If you would like are to join, please send an email and agency link to modelmafialistoversight@gmail.com and follow the tribe @modelactivist.

Shivani Persad and Samantha Bolger have their very own podcast, More Than Model Radio where they interview models about what they’re passionate about beyond modeling! If you want a chance to be interviewed, hit them up on Instagram! Listen HERE for previous episodes.

Sinead Bovell of WAYE was our incredible host this evening who interviewed Grace Mahary on how she’s balanced modeling with her side business, Project Tsehigh. For inspiration on how to create your own business and brand, check our Sinead’s side hustle, WAYE (weekly advice for the young entrepreneur) and make sure to come to one of her upcoming WAYE talks. I can’t say more than they’re on of the few events that I actually look forward to attending. She’s inspiring and a complete go-getter and will give you all the inside knowledge on tech, business and the future. Check her out!

Tulerie  was in attendance, one of the coolest new platforms of digital “shopping”. I without a doubt think this will be the way of the future; a concept that lets you lend and borrow from your friends without braking your bank or contributing to the fabric waste created by fast fashion and consumerism. And if you do want to shop, invest in that piece that will last you a lifetime and put it on the app so you can make some money off your purchase from your friends who want to borrow the piece as well! We’re all about a brand that works on closing the loop on waste.

Our event photos were taken by Ryan J. Ulsh. He’s been a dear friend to Dani and I and we’ve also collaborated a ton on test shoots together. I’ll often organize shoots with him and my agents have used A TON of our shots, many of them still in my book to this day. Follow his photography adventures on J. Ryan Ulsh or Jryanulsh.Studio